Archive for January, 2012

Wherever you are. Be all there-Jim Eliot

There is nothing better for a person than that he should eat and drink and find enjoyment in his toil Ecclesiastes 2:25

The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, not to worry about the future, or not to anticipate troubles, but to live wisely and earnestly for the present-Teaching of the Buddha

Every moment in our life is valuable. The seed of joy is planted in all of our circumstances and all it takes is for us to water it and harvest the fruit. Every moment in our life is to be savored and enjoyed because it all exists to make up the tapestry and the artwork that is called our story. That’s why I live with no regrets! Yes I said it. With all the stupid stuff that I have done and the wrong turns that I have made I have no regrets. Why? Because every dumb decision and wrong turn has brought me to this moment and in this moment I am fully alive. Most of the time we miss it and spend countless minutes, hours, and days wishing we were living someone else’s story. Instead of being present in our own we drift away and waste what is precious by looking toward the past or stressing about the future

Instead of thinking about another story to live I have chosen to savor every moment. Every day my goal is to enjoy the now whether it’s getting my kids to clean up their messy room or eating a nice crisp fuji apple. I take it all in and realize that I have been given a gift: the gift of life

How can we do this on a regular basis?

Slow down Most of our life is lived at a speed that is unsustainable and counterproductive to actually living in the present. Instead of going through the day at 90 mph the best thing to do is to slow down. You will be amazed at what happens. You begin to see the important things more clearly and eliminate the unnecessary. You begin to notice the beauty that is all around you and become content with your life just as it is.

Breathe This simple act is the foundation of our life. Once you slow down practice breathing. I practice breathing while I do some of the mundane tasks that I would rather not do like washing dishes or putting the kids to bed. Eventually the breathing leads to meditation and meditation leads to prayer and prayer leads to peace If nothing else I am reminded of the gift of life that I have been given.

Use all of your senses The next time you are eating don’t just concentrate on the taste. Notice the smells. The texture. The sound of the food as it cooks over the stove. Begin to use all five of your senses with every action that you take. Life is not made for just going through the motions. Life is to be experienced

Be Grateful Finally,be grateful. When we practice gratitude we begin to live in the moment. We are grateful and thankful for what we have now in the moment. It does not matter whether we have the latest technological gadget or whether we have the best looking house or car on the block. We are thankful for our story and we are fully present within it. So begin to write a list of what you are thankful for or practice letting others know how much you appreciate their presence in your life story.

Savor the moment!!!

There are certain years that we mark off as milestones. What immediately comes to mind are the years we turn sixteen or twenty one or forty come to mind. They all mark a transition point. One phase of life is ending and another is beginning. They are the thresholds we walk through to start living life in a different way. I remember my first year out of high school. It was a time of being on a steep learning curve. It was the time where I encountered the real world and the real world almost ate me alive. I experienced my first real love and my first real brush with the law and it sobered me up. It gave my life a little weight and transformed me.

Sometimes we experience these milestones and transitions along the same time table as everyone else but sometimes it’s not about being on a certain chronological time table with the rest of our peers or what society expects i.e. twenty first or fortieth birthday. Sometimes it’s just about what God is doing in us and with us at this moment; in this season. Right now I am experiencing one of those seasons; one of those moments. I am thirty four and my life is changing right before my eyes. Some of these changes include:

I just lost 12 lbs

Gaining a whole new perspective on relating to God (writing about that soon)

Taking actual steps toward writing a book (one chapter down :)

This is turning out to be a year of transformation and it has not all been meticulously planned. I just took advantage of what God gave me: a church that closed, a move to another city, and a need for rest. What has been a moment of fatigue, disappointment, and frustration has also turned out to be one of the best seasons of my life. No it didn’t start on January 1st but sometime around October. I am not on anyone’s timetable but my own. This is my incredible year of transformation.