Posts Tagged ‘writing’

It has been a very exciting journey to go from a random thought in my mind to actually pursuing writing an ebook called His Story, Our Story I am on a very steep learning curve and still am learning about marketing and all the business/technical aspects of writing. In the process of going from idea to reality and writing my first draft I have learned many lessons here are five of them:

All it takes is a page a day

Writing a book of any size can be daunting. I have always put it off because I was afraid I wouldn’t finish or I would end up writing until I was an AARP member. I intentionally started with a small ebook because of this challenge but I learned a secret. You can do a lot if you just write a page a day. If you write a page a day you can at least have 30 pages in a month, 90 pages in 3 months, and 180 pages in six months. On and on it goes until…Voila you have something to publish. Just start with one page a day and usually you actually write more than that. There’s something about that bare minimum that leave no room for failure and unlimited potential to write your heart out.

Write and then revise

Not only is one page a day doable but one crappy page a day is doable. I think these words should be posted on every author’s walls: Write and then revise. I got so much momentum going by just sitting in front of the computer and typing away. Some of it was horrible. Well guess what? Now in the editing stages what was considered horrible has now been revised into something readable.

Make this your life

You have to focus. This is where the rubber hits the road and separates the men from the boys and the dreamers from the doers. Throughout the time writing my first draft I was distracted by numerous things. Some of them good. Some of them not so good. All of them keeping me from my best. So here’s how I eliminated the distractions. I woke up not to go to work or to take care of all the other things that I had to do. I woke up to do what I wanted to do: write. I had my laptop set up so before I left the house I wrote. I made it my life.

Involve others in the early stages

The one thing that changed the game for me was letting people know what I was doing. Good old fashioned pride took care of the rest. It started with my wife. Then a couple of close friends. Then I let social media do its thing and then I had an obligation. Not only to myself but to the people who wanted to see me succeed. That’s some powerful motivation

Save your work

Here is the big lesson that I am learning now as I am putting the finishing touches on everything. While revising chapters I realized that some pages and paragraphs were missing. I was sure that I wrote them. What happened? I forgot to press save. Save your work is my next most important mantra. If I would have saved my work I wouldn’t have to go and remember what I actually wrote or come up with something new. Wasted time.

So those are my five lessons. What are some lessons you have learned in the writing process? Do you have any mantras or guidelines that keep you focused and creatively pursuing your art?

Side note: Mayo Family update

It’s been a while since I let folks know what’s going on with us since our move. Well here is a quick update:

Pittsburgh: We love the Burgh and have been here long enuff that it feels like home. In fact we are looking into buying a home here and have been looking for the past few months. Please pray that we find a company that will give us approval for a loan (we have found a house that is just right for us)

Kaydon: Kaydon is growing like a weed and is now potty training. It took him some time but he was motivated by being able to one day go camping with Dad. He has grown to be more verbal and has made many new friends.

Syenna: Cc is fascinated with princesses and enjoys watching The Princess and the Frog. She is very talkative and constantly adding to her vocabulary.

Yvette: Yvette is now a Jazzercise instructor and has had a full plate with taking care of the kids and her new instructor gig. She is also bringing back the lost art of letter writing. Check out her blog

Ramon: I recently completed my goals of losing 20 lbs and going on my first backpacking trip. It was amazing and I have a new sense of awe and wonder at nature and creation. I even started my own taxonomic record of all the species that I saw. The downer to the trip was that I got extremely sick and found out that I had stomach ulcers. The GI doctor put me on a strict diet and gave me some medicine so they should be healing nicely. My follow up is tomorrow.

What’s next??? Well I am currently working at Trader Joe’s but I am starting to really dig into the passion that I have for writing and will be submitting articles to various magazines as well as working on a few ebook projects. In the meantime I will continue posting on my blog and in the coming months will steer the discussion towards matters of faith and theology.

So that’s us in a nutshell. Stay tuned for more Mayo adventures :)

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There are certain years that we mark off as milestones. What immediately comes to mind are the years we turn sixteen or twenty one or forty come to mind. They all mark a transition point. One phase of life is ending and another is beginning. They are the thresholds we walk through to start living life in a different way. I remember my first year out of high school. It was a time of being on a steep learning curve. It was the time where I encountered the real world and the real world almost ate me alive. I experienced my first real love and my first real brush with the law and it sobered me up. It gave my life a little weight and transformed me.

Sometimes we experience these milestones and transitions along the same time table as everyone else but sometimes it’s not about being on a certain chronological time table with the rest of our peers or what society expects i.e. twenty first or fortieth birthday. Sometimes it’s just about what God is doing in us and with us at this moment; in this season. Right now I am experiencing one of those seasons; one of those moments. I am thirty four and my life is changing right before my eyes. Some of these changes include:

I just lost 12 lbs

Gaining a whole new perspective on relating to God (writing about that soon)

Taking actual steps toward writing a book (one chapter down :)

This is turning out to be a year of transformation and it has not all been meticulously planned. I just took advantage of what God gave me: a church that closed, a move to another city, and a need for rest. What has been a moment of fatigue, disappointment, and frustration has also turned out to be one of the best seasons of my life. No it didn’t start on January 1st but sometime around October. I am not on anyone’s timetable but my own. This is my incredible year of transformation.

Some things are pretty obvious. If u see a blog titled “Writer’s Block” you would probably guess it’s about writing or a writer trying to get over her writer’s block. If u see a blog entitled “Hip Hop News” you expect to see news about Hip Hop. And if u see a blog entitled “Mama’s Musings” you expect to hear about a mother’s thoughts on motherhood and life. Well my blog is named after me but it is about more than just me. It is about my journey. See for the past eight to ten years I have taken a hiatus. A hiatus from living authentically as me.

See I have been an impostor for a long time. Not the kind of impostor with sinister motives to topple down governments but pure motives. I was an impostor for others. An impostor who had sincere motives of serving others; of serving God. The past two years have been very revealing and have helped to shed that false mask. I have seen a church that I love become a church that I don’t love and eventually go from declining to death. All the while I have noticed that not only was it the church that I didn’t love but I also didn’t love the person I had become.

So now I am back from hiatus and undertaking a  journey into becoming a better person. It is the journey of a pastor who has preached about living an abundant life-a better quality of life-but has not fully experienced that. See I believe true authentic spirituality is supposed to encompass more than just religious observances but it is supposed to show you how to live 24/7. It is designed point the way to a better quality of life in all areas that you touch-work, relationships, recreation etc. So this blog will chronicle my journey in becoming a better person; a better me; as I seek a better quality of life.